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AITA for telling my daughter that her not wanting kids is why I wanted to have more children

by Jane Smith
October 16, 2025
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A young woman, thrust into motherhood before she could even fully become herself, carried the weight of loss and resilience alone with her daughter, Kiara. Their bond, forged in the fire of hardship and love, was a fragile light in a world that often felt unforgiving, with each mother and daughter facing their own fears and dreams shaped by the past.

Years later, as hope for new beginnings stirred with a second marriage, Kiara’s secret shattered the fragile peace—a silent plea woven with fear and uncertainty. In that moment, their intertwined journeys revealed the enduring strength and complexity of choice, love, and the unspoken pain that binds them.

AITA for telling my daughter that her not wanting kids is why I wanted to have more children

I (42 F) was a teen mom, I got married...

I was a baby myself and I resented my circumstances,...

When Kiara was 13, she told me she didn't want...

I started taking her to an afterschool s*x ed cla*s...

She repeated the sentiment over the years even though she...

I got remarried the year Kiara graduated and my husband...

A few months ago, I found Kiara crying really badly...

I know she didn't want kids so I offered to...

She was insistent on keeping the baby even though she...

So my husband and I decided to help her instead...

Her pregnancy was terrible on her and she told me...

Then a week ago, she miscarried. She's been inconsolable and...

I've been very sad too because it hurts to see...

Then yesterday during breakfast she asked me if my husband...

I was taken aback by and I tried not to...

She kept pressuring me and I cracked and admitted the...

Kiara said some very nasty things and called me an...

I've felt so terrible I said that to her during...

My husband a*sured me I just had a stress break...

Edit: because I was recommended in a dm to add...

the central conflict is not whether or not my daughter...

My daughter's decision about children is her own and I...

Edit: maybe in a week I will give an actual...

What do you think of this story?





REDDIT USERS WERE STUNNED – YOU WON’T BELIEVE SOME OF THESE REACTIONS.

Untoldrose YTA - Either you want more children or you...

Your reproducing should not be dependent on her choice not...

Intentional or not this entire scenario screams of emotional manipulation....

Decide with your husband what you two want as a...

TheSciFiGuy80 NTA She asked, she got an honest answer.

ed_lv NAH It's an unfortunate situation, and I hope things...

LuckOfTheDevil NTA because it's not like you were blaming her....

But... I don't understand what her not wanting kids has...

For context I have a 23 yr old daughter who...

in our genes) and I'm 46... and her childfree status...

I'm also super confused as to why Kiera wanted to...

or why on earth she stopped birth control if she...

I just don't predict good things for her without it.

Mind-over-matter2020 Ok you've said two different things: 1.

You and partner have decided not to have children If...

You and husband only having kids because your daughter doesn't...

I don't understand why you are thinking they are the...

Make an adult decision and stop putting it on your...

you don't explain the comment about her not wanting children...

Is that maybe more the issue than the one you...

) Just to be clear: you need to separate your...

moremommapoorpoppa NTA. You were supportive of your daughter,

did what you could do she wouldn't repeat your mistakes,...

She asked you an answer, and you answered honestly. Maybe...

but if she chooses not to have kids it's not...

She's also NTA,

ThrowingIntoTheEther it's just an understandably emotional time: This is a...

Is the only reason you wanted to have more kids...

a grandkid) and your child ended up not wanting to...

you changed yours so that you would have the capacity...

And then miscarriage left you in a grey area because...

I'm sure someone has stronger opinions than me on this,...

You didn't have to tell her that you only wanted...

"I didn't think I could be there for you with...

time has pa*sed and things have change for me so...

especially since it's been taxing for it to be so...

" The way you phrased it makes it sound like...

However, she is also having a really shitty time of...

So maybe you sounded like you blamed her more than...

But you also really need to talk to your husband.

Having a baby should be something you both want and...

And yes, Things could turn on a dime again, and...

But you both are going to need to be in...

I think between all of your miscarriages and both of...

neither of you are in a place to be good...

CitrineGhost And deal with it when you get there. NAH.:...

because you have your own personal desires of having grandchildren...

In my opinion, there's nothing wrong with you wanting to...

The important thing is that you never put the pressure...

That's A+ Kiara pressuring you to talk about your personal...

was a poor choice on her end. It's not like...

She pushed you to talk about it and then lashed...

because you were not pushing for Kiara to have children...

and because you kept your plans to yourself while she...

It's your prerogative to have more kids if you're not...

If she's upset by that, she needs to talk to...

ur-humble-overlord not get mad at you for living your own...

your daughter, in none of these instances, seems to be...

of course the story is inherently one-sided, but as someone...

she strikes me as particularly self-centered and immature in these...

she can't force the point then hurt her own feelings....

RiverSong_777 but she sounds like therapy would do her some...

Maybe I don't understand the problem but I have no...

wanting any more kids if that kid would have an...

I think her reaction was odd but a recent miscarriage...

Reading through the Reddit comments, it’s clear that many people empathize with the mother’s complex feelings—her initial resentment of teen motherhood, her deep love for Kiara, and her respect for Kiara’s autonomy. Commenters praised her for supporting Kiara’s choices while also trying to break the cycle by providing education and care. The news of Kiara’s pregnancy brought mixed emotions for many: concern for her future but also hope that she will make the choices best for herself.

In my view, this story highlights the importance of open communication and unconditional support within families, especially around sensitive topics like pregnancy and life choices. While the mother’s past shaped her fears, her ability to listen and support Kiara without judgment offers a strong foundation for whatever path Kiara chooses. It’s a reminder that every generation can learn and grow from the last, even in difficult circumstances.

Jane Smith

Jane loves exploring new cultures and writing about travel and lifestyle.

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