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WIBTA if I told my roommate’s mom that I won’t be following her rules in my apartment?

by Jane Smith
October 16, 2025
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Two young women, bound by friendship and shared dreams, find their harmony tested by invisible chains of control. In the sanctuary of their off-campus apartment, the silent tension between independence and imposed authority threatens to unravel the delicate balance they’ve built. One roommate’s struggle becomes a quiet rebellion against rules that feel foreign and unfair, stirring emotions that cut deeper than the rent they split.

As Emily’s parents prepare to visit, the looming shadow of expectation and judgment fills the air. The question of respect and boundaries hangs heavy, poised to challenge the very foundation of their living arrangement. In this intimate battleground between freedom and obligation, a simple conversation holds the power to reshape their lives and redefine what it means to truly share a home.

WIBTA if I told my roommate’s mom that I won’t be following her rules in my apartment?

My roommate, who I'll call Emily, and I (both 21F)...

I pay for my part myself, but Emily's parents pay...

Emily's mom is a bit overbearing and has a lot...

She specifically told Emily to have a talk with me...

Emily doesn't care if I have my boyfriend over for...

However, it strikes me the wrong way that Emily's mom...

Today Emily's parents are coming to visit , and I...

WIBTA if I told her mom that, with all due...

On one hand, I feel like I'm justified. This woman...

The idea of just rolling over and telling her that...

However, after speaking to my own mother about the subject,...

She says that even though I am paying for my...

even if Emily and I just end up breaking those...

and she doesn't care if I tell her mom that...

So, I was hoping to get some outside opinions here....

EDIT: Thank you all for your input! Her parents stopped...

They'll be staying here overnight though, so I'm planning on...

I also just wanted to say that after talking to...

it turns out that her dad really doesn't care what...

This is why Emily doesn't care if I speak up...

Emily says that her dad would never make her move...

not mine), her dad makes all of the final decisions...

They're all in the living room watching movies and I'm...

That being said if Emily's mother does say anything I'm...

I'll do another update tomorrow morning after they leave. FINAL...

As I expected, her mom DID bring up the rules,...

They argue about politics a lot. I won't go into...

Her mom is also into a lot of conspiracy theories...

Anyways, I guess the entire time they were together yesterday,...

This morning, when I came out of my bedroom, I...

I sat down and was having a casual discussion with...

Emily just snapped at her mom, and told her to...

Emily snapped at her mom again, told her that she...

We all talked casually about school and work for a...

What do you think of this story?





REDDIT USERS WERE STUNNED – YOU WON’T BELIEVE SOME OF THESE REACTIONS.

borntolose1 NTA. 1. She's not your mom. 2. She's not...

archeofella NTA, but if the mom is a narcissist then...

How about you arrange to be somewhere else each time...

Thia-M NTA at all. But please follow up. I want...

Legal-Biscotti3049 You have every right to tell the mom you...

But, don't be surprised if you're looking for a new...

SavageInkStudios NTA: its your apartment, not your roomate's mother's.

kitkatkate83 That lady has zero say ehatsoever in how you...

Your answer should be "I'll give that all the consideration...

sarahdavek ": "I will consider what you are asking." And...

lkvwfurry NTA. Not her house. You're over 18. SHE'S the...

If she brings it up just say "I understand that...

AdInteresting8032 NTA, but what would you be accomplishing?

I mean, I'm all for standing up for yourself, but...

I don't see her changing her behavior towards you, and...

I personally wouldn't bother,

camthedestroyer and save it for when there's actually something worth...

Invite your BF over while she's there to establish dominance.

After reading through the Reddit comments, it’s clear that many sympathize with the roommate’s frustration about being bound by rules set by someone who doesn’t financially contribute to her living expenses. Most commenters agree that while Emily’s mom has her beliefs, imposing them on a fully paying adult tenant crosses a line. People suggest a respectful but firm conversation setting boundaries with Emily’s mom, emphasizing that while Emily can choose her own rules, the roommate has her own autonomy as well.

In my opinion, it’s reasonable for the roommate to assert her independence while maintaining respect for Emily’s family. Clear communication is key here—she should calmly explain that since she pays her share, she expects to be treated as an equal tenant, not as someone subject to rules from a third party. This approach could help maintain peace in the apartment without letting others overstep boundaries.

Jane Smith

Jane loves exploring new cultures and writing about travel and lifestyle.

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