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Parents Pressure Teen To Give Up Big College Dreams For The Sake Of Disabled Sister

by Jane Smith
October 16, 2025
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Rita’s life is marked by silent battles and unspoken pain, her body frail but her spirit caught in a relentless struggle against the weight of her disability. Though her mind remains sharp and resilient, the physical toll has stolen milestones from her—most painfully, the chance to graduate high school, a dream shattered by illness and kept just out of reach, leaving her heart heavy with the sting of perceived failure.

Meanwhile, her younger sister stands at the crossroads of her own future, burdened by the shadow of Rita’s struggles yet filled with hope and possibility. As she faces the daunting choices of her senior year, the contrast between their paths is poignant—a reminder of both the fragility of dreams and the fierce determination to carve out a different destiny.

AITA for refusing to give up opportunities that come my way for my sister’s sake?

My older sister Rita (20f) is disabled. My sister's disability...

physically she cannot do much and struggles and struggled even...

She never graduated highs school because she got so sick...

She was offered the chance to repeat but she said...

It's something that causes her a lot of distress and...

She doesn't work and she doesn't go to school or...

There have been a lot of discussions about college or...

I was given information on this apprenticeship that could be...

graduates. It's exciting. Rita was super upset to hear I...

They suggested I focus on looking at community colleges only...

They told me I could afford my own place if...

I wasn't allowed to participate in school plays because Rita...

They refused to sign a permission slip that would have...

because Rita would never get to have an experience like...

The permission slip came in because some travel might be...

They pulled me out of art cla*ses when I was...

But they pulled me regardless. Rita would always get upset...

I felt bad for her but also resentful of the...

This became a fight when the college stuff came up...

would be. They said I should aim for something lower...

I told them I hated them for expecting me to....

What do you think of this story?





REDDIT USERS WERE STUNNED – YOU WON’T BELIEVE SOME OF THESE REACTIONS.

diminishingpatience NTA. This is appalling.

>my parents asked me how I could even think about...

>They said I should aim for something lower for Rita's...

SheiB123 For her!? Does she think that she could take...

Your parents actually want you do to something LESS than...

that is horrid . I would find a college, take...

YOU are the only person who will look out for...

ALSO make sure that your parents don't expect you to...

MichaelKerk NTA. But im sorry to say this, this sounds...

Try to talk to someone, maybe at school or a...

You are your own person. If they cannot see that,...

Try to go low contact for a while as well...

Your sister is being selfish for denying you one. Your...

Scenarioing Your parents are being completely ridiculous and irrational.

It was bad enough they stifled your education and experience...

They want you you live a lifetime of mediocrity just...

Don't have a wedding and elope because sis will complain...

Tell them that their years of appeasement enabled your sister's...

That you are not going to surrender your entire life....

KarmaWillGetYa NTA. This is a**se. You are far from selfish.

You had things taken away/denied you due to your sister's...

Your sister's life or lack there of is not your...

This is not about loyalty but them abusing and using...

Apart-Ad-6518 NTA NTA NTA "Rita heard us argue about it...

for her." You're *not* selfish. You *mustn't* give up something...

You've already been forced to give up far more than...

It's not your fault your sister is disabled & it's...

"They suggested I focus on looking at community colleges only...

Why should you? Go for the apprenticeship. All the very...

Literally_Taken Your family should wish for you to flourish and...

Depriving you of any opportunity your sister can't have is...

It's time you discussed their behavior with everyone who can...

Tell them what has happened in the past, and the...

Accept help that will enable you to take the opportunities...

I'm so sorry you'll have to make it happen without...

rckyshow You are absolutely NTA: NTA....she was given the opportunity...

It is not your fault that she wasn't allowed/couldn't do...

Your parents are punishing you because your sister is jealous...

Clean_Factor9673 At this point, you need to do what's right...

Your parents need to encourage Rota to get her GED...

Your parents are doing both of you a disservice. How...

pamelaonthego I'm trying to understand, your sacrifice wouldn't improve her...

so what's the point?

Reading through the Reddit comments, many readers expressed sympathy for Rita’s situation and frustration over how her disability has limited her opportunities, especially in education. Commenters highlighted the importance of recognizing that academic achievement isn’t the only measure of success and encouraged the family to support Rita in finding fulfillment beyond traditional schooling. Others emphasized the emotional toll this has taken on her and suggested seeking counseling to help her cope with feelings of failure and loss.

From my perspective, the story underscores a difficult reality faced by many families dealing with chronic illness and disability. It’s crucial that both Rita and her sister find paths that honor their individual circumstances and strengths. While the younger sibling has promising opportunities ahead, keeping empathy and open communication within the family will be key to ensuring Rita doesn’t feel left behind or forgotten as they all navigate their futures.

Jane Smith

Jane loves exploring new cultures and writing about travel and lifestyle.

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