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AITA for asking my sister and her family to leave and ruin our family dinner?

by Michael Lee
October 16, 2025
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Last year, their carefully crafted plans for a joyful Thanksgiving shattered in an instant when an emergency C-section thrust them into a whirlwind of fear and uncertainty. With their unborn child’s health hanging in the balance, the warmth of family gatherings was replaced by sterile hospital walls, and celebrations were quietly shelved for the sake of healing and hope.

Now, months later, as recovery brings renewed strength and longing for connection, they find themselves on the cusp of reclaiming those lost moments. What was once postponed now carries the weight of resilience and love, as they prepare to gather their closest family, eager to fill their home with laughter, gratitude, and the unspoken bond forged through hardship.

AITA for asking my sister and her family to leave and ruin our family dinner?

My girlfriend (f29) and I (m29) were going to host...

my siblings and my sisters family). Unfortunately we had some...

even though she was 31 weeks pregnant just a few...

I won't go into too much detail with that since...

My girlfriend and I decided to just stay home during...

However, since she's feeling better now she thought that it...

Long story short, we planned a dinner for yesterday. My...

My sister (f35) is married and has two kids (both...

and when our families came, my sister's husband asked where...

My gf is a little oversensitive still, so I took...

They said they'll be careful and my sister's husband apologised....

My sister said "oh, it must be the delivery for...

That caused a big argument between me and my sister,...

The discussion escalated and I ended up asking my sister...

We ended up having dinner just with my in-laws and...

I feel like I did something wrong because now my...

but I was only trying to keep my girlfriend comfortable...

What do you think of this story?





THE COMMENTS SECTION WENT WILD – REDDIT HAD *A LOT* TO SAY ABOUT THIS ONE.

Cursd818 NTA People can eat vegan for ONE meal.

You do NOT go to someone's house as a guest,...

If her sons' had tried it and disliked it, they...

Trilobyte141 But their behaviour was rude fron start to finish.:...

I'm a happy omnivore and love me some good fried...

And yes, I have a small child under ten, I'm...

Vegetables are good for him, and if he's really not...

Oh, the horror of not having meat for *one meal*!...

so easy to be decent guests by just respecting the...

Unless you and your gf spontaneously became vegans last week...

your dinner party fare should have been no surprise and...

TemptingPenguin369 NTA. Anyone who orders a takeaway to their dinner...

Her children need to know that they won't love every...

If they really didn't enjoy it, she could have taken...

Electrical_Tree_2865 NTA.

If I'm going to a vegans house for a dinner...

I have 2 kids under 10, I know how picky...

or bring some safe snacks for them to have in...

I absolutely would not under any circumstances order take away...

made, and I definitely would be asking the host if...

If not then I'd excuse myself and leave the dinner...

Yes, the kids can't understand the complexity of the situation...

their parents however can and they had options beforehand to...

However they also could have asked, or heck, applied common...

TaylSpinGaming should we feed the kids before we go? Or...

However, it doesn't sound like you made it clear to...

If you guys don't usually mind being around meat I...

deal, but they still should have asked you.

This just seems like a whole lot of a lack...

not as dinner was getting ready to be served.

But your sister and her family made far too many...

Like a*suming the vegan household would just make a meat...

younger kids can be really sensitive to new smells/tastes/textures to...

their still developing and more sensitive sense of taste.

I can understand why a parent would want them to...

reacting poorly. And a kid under 10 is far more...

If she really got it *just for the kids* she...

Regular_Boot_3540 A poorly conceived effort, but not with bad intention.:...

DoIwantToKnow6417 ** They hadn't even tried. This is so rude.

And what is wrong with having your kids eat vegetables?...

they should have hired a baby sitter, informed their hosts...

z00k33per0304 NTA: I don't offer a verdict either way but...

The ordered door was specifically for the *kids* implying that...

You said there were vegan nuggets and fries for the...

Maybe I'm weird but after absorbing that it was a...

given it a shot.. I was brought up to never...

then other arrangements could have been made to feed the...

but it seems they were just trying to placate the...

C_Greuel04 You're kinda TA.

Most of this could've been avoided by prefacing that you'd...

It's generally polite to inform your guest of the kind...

Sure, your guests ordering takeout to your door is also...

That's probably the better alternative than forcing their kids to...

directly. But they should've asked before ordering.

Kicking them out would've been more understandable if they refused...

but only doing it for the kids is more understandable....

grckalck but kicking them out instead of having an adult...

Its acceptable for vegans or anyone else with dietary restrictions...

It is therefore also acceptable for non-vegans to bring/buy their...

Since you chose not accommodate the meat eaters, (your house,...

If you want to host a friendly dinner, then make...

The same applies for people who invite you.

Based on the Reddit comments, many readers expressed empathy for the couple’s situation, understanding that health complications and recovery understandably disrupted their holiday plans. Commenters largely supported the idea of rescheduling a family gathering to make up for the missed celebrations, emphasizing the importance of family support during challenging times. Some also advised clear communication with all relatives to manage expectations and ensure everyone felt included despite the delays.

In my opinion, hosting a delayed family dinner is a thoughtful and meaningful way to reconnect and celebrate the new addition to their family. Health and well-being must always come first, and it’s heartening to see the couple prioritizing recovery while still valuing family traditions. Ultimately, flexibility and understanding from everyone involved will help make the rescheduled dinner a joyful and memorable occasion.

Michael Lee

Michael is a tech enthusiast sharing insights on software development and gadgets.

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