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AITA for suggesting adoption when my girlfriend told me she’s pregnant?

by John Doe
October 16, 2025
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Two young souls, bound by duty and love, face an unimaginable crossroad. As a Marine and a Navy sailor, their lives are defined by discipline, distance, and uncertainty, yet the news of a new life growing between them ignites a storm of hope and fear that neither expected.

Caught between their commitments and the fragile future of their unborn child, they wrestle with the harsh realities of military life and parenthood. Their love is tested by the weight of responsibility, the pain of potential separation, and the desperate longing to do what’s best for the life they’ve created together.

AITA for suggesting adoption when my girlfriend told me she’s pregnant?

I (25M) am a Marine and my girlfriend (24F) is...

We don't live on the same base, but we've made...

She was a little nervous but seemed excited too. I...

After I had time to really think about everything, I...

I told her it's not that I don't care, but...

I'm worried we won't be able to give the baby...

She got really upset. She said I was basically telling...

I told her that's not what I meant I just...

She's been distant and barely responding to my messages. I...

but I also feel like I'm just trying to be...

What do you think of this story?





THE COMMENTS SECTION WENT WILD – REDDIT HAD *A LOT* TO SAY ABOUT THIS ONE.

Natenat04 Before any rash decisions are made,

you two should sit down with a therapist and talk...

Then hopefully you two can make a decision on what's...

Complex_Hope_8789 Wrap up if you don't want to be a...

why do men have so much difficulty understanding this concept?

Edit: what is with the men in this thread who...

HeyIts-Amanda You're in your mid-20s and have been together for...

you feel about having kids? After you suggested adoption, she's...

ALawful_Chaos Sure, it's going to be rough, but parents do...

If you didn't think having a baby was a good...

It's a little late to "be realistic before jumping into...

But beyond that, imagine how your girlfriend felt when you...

I'm going to a*sume she's not stupid, and is just...

But unlike you, she cannot physically just walk away from...

Any choice she makes (and I hope she has access...

And it's very likely that she is already attached, even...

Imagine facing all that pressure and all these new emotions,

and then the person who is supposed to love you...

(Which, by the way, is not some simple solution like...

She would still have to go through the mind and...

good people who will treat the child well). Of course...

If she decides to keep the baby, now she has...

because what you suggested sounds a lot like you're looking...

even if she doesn't keep the baby, I wouldn't expect...

Talking about all the options is fine,

but it would have been better to ask her what...

Also, if you are actually concerned about whether you are...

but know that your relationship will be over. And for...

don't wait until the kid is old enough to understand...

I work as a law clerk in paternity and child...

It's not pretty and it hurts every party involved. If...

Even if the relationship doesn't last, you still need to...

bigwil2442 (I hope no one spent money on those! ):...

who was an active duty sailor. Our deployments when dating...

Using the excuse of it being too hard to raise...

Ya those first couple years while my wife and I...

child. None of our kids were ever apart from both...

Ya we would deploy but never at the same time,...

You're trying to run from your responsibility to your unborn...

No_Security4329 Info: what precautions were you taking in order to...

Also, I don't know how you could expect your girlfriend...

Just own the fact that you don't want to be...

And since you don't want to be a dad, then...

Puma_Pounce I mean what made you think she'd want to...

if she seemed excited? Of course that was going to...

mismatchsocksrcool You want the kid to have a stable life,

but clearly know nothing about the adoption or foster care...

My mom ended up leaving once my sister turned 2...

I'm pretty sure they can station you closer and you'll...

Mydogsdad YTA for not using birth control. It's available for...

morbidnerd NAH it's Navy and Marines. It's not like you're...

If you two wanted to be together long term, there's...

It sounds like you're just not ready to go from...

which is fair but it's also fair for her to...

This is one of things you probably should've talked about...

You're not really hearing each other. Also, ignore the comments...

I'm a navy vet myself, and I understand that the...

Probably why every woman I know who served has been...

Reading through the Reddit comments, it’s clear that many sympathize with the poster’s concerns about the challenges of raising a child while both partners are actively deployed in the military. Commenters understand the hesitation around the timing and stability needed for a child’s upbringing, especially when deployments and base assignments can keep the couple apart for long stretches. Many suggest that open communication and exploring all options together, including parenting plans and support systems, are crucial steps forward.

In my opinion, while the initial reaction might feel harsh or disappointing, it’s important to acknowledge the reality of their situation. Being honest about the difficulties of military life and parenthood is responsible, not uncaring. The key will be for the couple to continue discussing their feelings and expectations with empathy, ensuring they make a decision that honors both their relationship and the well-being of their potential child.

John Doe

John is a seasoned writer with a passion for storytelling and technology.

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