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AITA for considering a girl that likes me as an option when I’ve been chasing another girl for 8 months?

by Jane Smith
October 17, 2025
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He had carried a quiet crush on Anna for months, his heart tangled in hopes and fears, chasing a dream that felt just within reach yet painfully uncertain. The revelation that another girl, Hannah, secretly liked him stirred a confusing mix of emotions—curiosity, doubt, and a desperate longing for connection he’d never truly experienced before.

Caught between the fear of rejection and the desire for closure, he wrestled with his overthinking mind, trying to map out a future where both Anna and Hannah might play a part. In this fragile moment, he stood on the edge of vulnerability, ready to confess his feelings, knowing that whatever happened next could either break or heal the quiet ache inside him.

AITA for considering a girl that likes me as an option when I’ve been chasing another girl for 8 months?

Me, (straight M), has had a crush on a girl,...

Recently though, I found out from a friend, (we'll call...

I hadn't really had many girls have a crush on...

Here's where the problem is, I tend to overthink things...

so I told myself that if Anna and I don't...

And I only really thought this since I know something...

but I wanted to get some closure from Anna since...

and Hannah later found the messages when she borrowed his...

She confronted me about it and said that it was...

I still plan on asking Anna out,

but when I had a talk with Ryan about this...

Either 1, Anna says she doesn't have the same feelings...

or 2 she wants to go out with me (and...

want a guy that had other options in mind. This...

And is there any advice I could get to handle...

What do you think of this story?





REDDIT USERS WERE STUNNED – YOU WON’T BELIEVE SOME OF THESE REACTIONS.

Grand_Swimmy What do you mean "chasing her for months" if...

you stalking her?

I guess that's probably not what you mean here but...

cla*s="comment_author">Calix19: YTA. What I call the term for what you've...

" If you want to get to know her and...

it should be entirely on your interest in her -...

If something like this were to have happened naturally after...

but planning it out this way makes Hannah a LITERAL...

There's also possibly a little bit of ESH going on...

she was only supposed to borrowing it for something. And...

did Ryan actually tell her, and they're using borrowing the...

He might have felt concerned enough to tell her given...

Zap__Dannigan Nta for thinking about possible options for your dating...

You're really interested in a girl and want to ask...

This is normal and anyone who tells you any different...

But to type it out to your friend like it's...

Telling someone "if Anna says no I'll ask out this...

Fresh_Leek_ Why are you "chasing" anyone for that amount of...

Having a person as a "backup" is a horrible thing...

Fit-Refuse-1447 NTA You are in a cla*sic love triangle, and...

Learn to put your thoughts in a bit smoother way,...

I've not thought them like that, maybe I should look...

That would make you sound like a creep or a...

If someone doesn't want to date you, there's no obligation...

In fact, it's pertty common for people to date casually...

That Ryan is not a friend to be trusted, though....

Maybe he's got an interest on either girl, and showing...

thrusty8 You've been chasing Anna for eight literal months and...

My dude, you have a crush on the *idea* of...

NTA for considering someone else. Kinda delulu for obsessing over...

After reading through the Reddit comments, it’s clear that many people empathize with the narrator’s dilemma of balancing hope and realism in matters of the heart. Commenters appreciate the honesty in acknowledging both feelings for Anna and the potential interest in Hannah, highlighting the importance of being open to possibilities without losing sight of one’s true emotions. There’s a consensus that while it’s natural to seek closure and explore other options, genuine connections should be the priority.

In my opinion, this story reflects a common experience in young love—navigating uncertainty while trying to stay true to oneself. The narrator’s plan to confess to Anna first shows courage, and considering Hannah only if things don’t work out seems like a thoughtful way to respect both relationships. Ultimately, love isn’t about rushing decisions but about understanding and valuing the people involved, and this story beautifully captures that delicate balance.

Jane Smith

Jane loves exploring new cultures and writing about travel and lifestyle.

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