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AITA for leaving my family to fend for themselves?

by Michael Lee
October 17, 2025
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In a household fractured by addiction and emotional turmoil, the middle child shoulders the weight of a family unraveling at the seams. With a mother lost to alcoholism and psychological demons, an older brother trapped in addiction, and siblings struggling in their own ways, he becomes the reluctant caretaker in a world turned upside down.

Amidst the chaos, the youngest child, an autistic boy, emerges as the beacon of unexpected maturity, highlighting the painful irony of a family where roles are reversed and innocence is lost too soon. This is a story of resilience and silent sacrifice, where love is tangled with hardship and survival is a daily battle.

AITA for leaving my family to fend for themselves?

I (20m) am the middle child in a family that...

My mom's an alcoholic with serious psychological issues and a...

My older brother (28) who is a bit of an...

My teen sister can't even make her own breakfast, and...

Basically, I've been taking care of everyone for as long...

When I was a teenager, I spent countless nights picking...

and start yelling at her coworkers. My older brother constantly...

and my sister always came to me crying after another...

A few weeks ago, I received the best news of...

It was an incredible opportunity because it was something I...

For once, I felt that all the sacrifices and sleepless...

My mother basically asked me who would help her pay...

My older brother told me it must be easy for...

saying I had promised her I would always be there...

Even my little brother called me an idiot, although I'm...

When I'm still the invisible pillar of this family. I...

I never thought about abandoning them or cutting off contact,...

I've been selling my things, saving every penny, organizing my...

This time, I'm not going to apologize for taking a...

But I can't help thinking about how much my family...

They don't even talk to me and they spend their...

What do you think of this story?





HERE’S HOW REDDIT BLEW UP AFTER HEARING THIS – PEOPLE COULDN’T BELIEVE IT.

Weird-Roll6265 Time for mom to grow up and figure sh...

Pouring a bowl of cereal is not rocket science. Go...

Outrageous-forest NTA: Your entire family are MANIPULATING you.

Your mother and older brother are ADULTS and are responsible...

Your younger siblings are NOT your children.... they have a...

Both adults are throwing away opportunities, making wrong decisions, and...

That is not your job, not your responsibility. If they...

Both of them can get a second job if they...

No one's is stopping your sister from doing the same......

It may feel like it because no one is stepping...

Time they figure things out in their own. It's time...

The income you earn over your life will determine not...

but more income means more you can put away into...

Then go low to no contact with your family while...

At first it'll be tough on you, but it'll be...

When done with university, get a job hours away from...

You need to live far enough away that going home...

Every child grows up and moves on with their life,...

That is your right, to have your own life, to...

stay strong. Go to uni and ignore your family. They...

KatzAKat NTA. Go and enjoy your life. You're not responsible...

Lock down everything you have and need going forward. Get...

Don't leave them where they can disappear or get destroyed...

especially if any of them bank at the same bank...

Change your pa*swords to something they won't figure out. Protect...

Your mother has your SSN and can use it when...

You may need to get a small storage area so...

I'm sorry to say but your relatives all sound like...

Research the crab pot mentality to get an understanding of...

They don't want you to succeed as it will show...

You may want to look into Al-anon which is for...

Ewithans Oh, sweetheart.

Make sure your important papers (like ID and pa*sport) are...

_ Your job is to get your own life going....

Right_Benefit1100 Make sure you hide any and all important documents...

Better yet get a safety deposit box at the bank...

You worked hard to get where you are, don't let...

Congratulations OP.

Ok_Homework8692 NTA you'd be amazingly surprised at how people can...

I would block them at least for the first few...

you. There will be begging for you to come back,...

DumpTruckSupremeDuck stay strong and live your life: NTA It's your...

It is your older brother's responsibility to take care of...

I feel sorry for your younger siblings, but you shouldn't...

They rely on you because they are to lazy and...

notastraycat You are so NTA it's not even a question....

INFO: no father in the picture? Is there any relative...

You worked hard and you deserve your success - go...

BGS2204 Honey run don't walk to the nearest exit!

When you are done with your stint in London get...

If you feel guilty send a hundred dollars now and...

Individual_Ad_9213 NTA; leave them and don't look back.

Better yet, block all of them, completely, from you social...

When you're finished with your program, check up on your...

After reading through the Reddit comments on this heartfelt post, it’s clear that many sympathize deeply with the middle child’s overwhelming burden. Commenters expressed admiration for his resilience and selflessness, while also urging him to seek support and prioritize his own well-being. Some suggested family therapy or external intervention, though others recognized the complexities that come with such a dysfunctional household.

From an outsider’s perspective, this story is a powerful reminder of how family roles can become painfully distorted in the face of addiction and mental health struggles. While the middle child has admirably stepped into the caretaker role, it’s crucial for him to find a way to set boundaries and care for himself. True healing for this family will require professional help and a shift away from enabling behaviors, but recognizing the problem is the first brave step.

Michael Lee

Michael is a tech enthusiast sharing insights on software development and gadgets.

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