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AITA: I’m doing everything my roommate asks and I’m still waking him up at night

by Alex Johnson
October 22, 2025
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Starting college is a whirlwind of new experiences and challenges, especially when sharing a room with someone new. One freshman faces the delicate balance of pursuing a passion in theater while respecting the quiet needed for her roommate’s sleep, navigating late nights filled with rehearsals and homework that stretch into the early hours.

Despite her careful efforts and open communication, tension grows as the roommate’s sleep is repeatedly disturbed, threatening the fragile harmony they’ve worked to build. The struggle between dreams and disruption reveals the raw vulnerability of adjusting to life’s demands while trying to coexist peacefully.

AITA: I’m doing everything my roommate asks and I’m still waking him up at night

Just started my freshman year of college. I really like...

He says that I'm not being quiet enough when I...

I explained to him that since I'm in a play...

Now, when I get out of rehearsal, I go to...

If I don't, which happens a lot, I go to...

During our conversation, he explained to me that I keep...

All he asked was that I don't open drawers when...

The last two nights in a row, he has woken...

Today he texted me saying something along the lines of...

" Now, of course I feel bad about this as...

I have done everything he asked of me. The one...

I feel like all of the responsibility of keeping him...

What do you think of this story?





THE COMMENTS SECTION WENT WILD – REDDIT HAD *A LOT* TO SAY ABOUT THIS ONE.

kalixanthippe NTA, roommates make noise. This is college, not a...

He needs earplugs, whale sounds, something to keep him from...

Separate-Parfait6426 You need to learn the miracle of WD40 for...

He needs to wear his noise cancelling headphones. BTW, does...

TurtleCostume NTA. His schedule doesn't take precedence over yours,

so you just need to both do your best to...

See if roommate is open to meeting with you and...

Maybe things like wd-40, a white noise machine, eye mask,...

hopefully your RA can get y'all on lists to switch...

someonefromspace- Throw him some ear plugs and tell him to...

Theredqueen_g NTA. If he's that light a sleeper,

even if you stay in the room to do your...

He needs sleep headphones and an eye mask. Also like...

fairefish lmao flashback to when the ppl in the dorm...

WALK at night &&

T_G_A_H spoiler i wasnt doin river dance i was creepin...

: NTA, but either get a white noise machine (Dohm...

or ask him to use a white or gray noise...

) Also like someone said, spray WD40 on the door...

You should be able to return to your room at...

Automatic-Spread-162 NTA (Said as someone who is a VERY light...

) First of all, definitely talk to whomever's in charge...

See if you can keep a fan or white noise...

If they aren't already doing it, see if your roommate...

And, finally, noise cancelling headphones are not comfortable to sleep...

There are, however, sleep headphones - including sleep masks with...

While they're not noise-cancelling,

the speakers are very thin and made for those who...

If your rommate goes for the sleep mask option, then...

any light you let in might be messing them up...

, or music specially designed for sleep, or sleep stories,...

There are a bunch of apps out there, and even...

They also make earbuds for sleep, though I don't find...

zealot_ratio NTA. you're not compatible as roommates,

Limp_Service_6886 by which I mean you're a considerate person and...

Dude, I'm so serious, I pay rent too.

After reading through the Reddit comments, it’s clear that many people sympathize with the roommate’s need for quiet but also recognize the challenges the original poster faces with their late-night schedule. A common piece of advice is for both roommates to find a compromise or for the poster to invest in some earplugs or a white noise machine to minimize disturbances. Some commenters also suggested discussing alternative study or relaxation spots that might not disrupt the roommate’s sleep.

In my opinion, the situation highlights the classic college roommate balancing act—respecting each other’s needs while navigating conflicting schedules. Communication is crucial, but so is empathy. Since the poster has already tried to accommodate by not opening drawers, perhaps exploring additional noise-mitigating solutions or even rearranging schedules slightly could help. Ultimately, it’s about mutual respect and understanding as they both adjust to college life.

Alex Johnson

Alex is an expert in finance and often shares tips on managing personal money.

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