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Hobby Baker Ghosts Her Brother On His Wedding Day After He Reneged On Their Deal And Refused To Pay Her For A 3-Tier Wedding Cake

by Emily Davis
October 23, 2025
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Her love for baking wasn’t just a hobby; it was a heartfelt expression of her creativity and care, shared through every delicate cake she crafted for those she cherished. When her younger brother and his fiancée asked her to create their wedding cake, it was more than just a request—it was a test of her passion, skill, and the respect she deserved for her work.

Stepping into the role of the family’s cake artist for the biggest occasion yet, she faced the challenge of balancing love and professionalism. She agreed to make the grand strawberry shortcake, but only under the condition that her efforts would be valued and fairly compensated—a moment that would define how her passion was honored within her own family.

AITA for not making my brother and his fiancée a wedding cake after they refused to pay me?

I (25F) love to bake. It's a big pa*sion of...

I have an Instagram account that I use to show...

I make these cakes for family and friends for birthday's...

I never charge for these cakes, but am always compensated...

They'll usually gift me money or a gift card to...

My younger brother (23M) and his fiancée (23F) were planning...

This would be my biggest order yet. They wanted a...

I was hesitant at first but agreed to make the...

I explained to them that this was the biggest order...

They agreed. I also made it clear that I wanted...

Made a practice batch of the actually cake so that...

I contacted my brother for my payment as I was...

they could be fresh). He insured me he'd drop off...

Next day came, no cheque again. I offered to drive...

So the day before the wedding I contacted both my...

They blew up on me telling me that I'm a...

I said no, and explained my terms again. They called...

So the day of the wedding I decided not to...

Well my brother, his fiancée and her family are now...

My family are trying to stay out of it, but...

What do you think of this story?





AFTER THIS STORY DROPPED, REDDIT WENT INTO MELTDOWN MODE – CHECK OUT WHAT PEOPLE SAID.

UsuallyWrite2 NTA And for a 25YO woman,

you have a remarkably good ability to set and enforce...

I think many people in your situation would have made...

time and money. Then they'd be posting here wondering if...

Your way or the other way, people would be mad....

mdthomas They knew exactly what they were doing.

For anyone who is giving you a hard time about...

NEUX2007 " NTA: NTA.

All I read here is they're calling you a selfish...

Forward_Squirrel8879 NTA - It doesn't matter that you usually don't...

charging was reasonable. They agreed to pay for the cake...

If they had a problem with it, they could have...

Instead, they waited to pushback until the last minute hoping...

Send variations of this message to anyone who is bothering...

wedding cake I agreed to make it but told them...

They said that they understood why I was charging and...

Over the last few months I sent them sketches of...

liked the flavor.

Throughout this entire process they never once questioned my decision...

It was only in the days before the wedding that...

I felt this was disrespectful of my time and that...

Not having a cake at their wedding was a consequence...

They had months to look into other options if they...

DbasedNYC ": Your brother and his now wife are ent*tled...

You were upfront about the charges and $400 for a...

They AGREED to this and then tried to guilt you...

The fact that her family is piling on shows the...

This is the type of thing that would cause me...

chaos_coordinator_X3 NTA- I'm so glad you stuck to your guns.

In the future- require full payment at least 4 weeks...

no tasting or sketching till it's made (offer a refund...

Witty_Reporter_9912 Just print out the texts, and mail them to...

at a minimum they need to pay for all the...

Nitro114 100% NTA You clearly stated your condition in advance...

UneducatedPotatoTato No payment, no product, its that simple.: NTA 1.

It's easy enough to rationalize that you depend on that...

It's an AH move on their part to agree to...

call your bluff. Like they fully expected you to still...

And shocked pikachu face when you stood your ground. The...

you absolutely wouldn't make the cake. Not that it should...

This is why doing favors and providing services to family...

LuLouProper NTA, and your "friends and family" rate should be...

After reading through the Reddit comments, it’s clear that many people empathize with the original poster’s position. Baking a large, intricate cake for a wedding is not only time-consuming but also costly, especially when it involves a three-layer cake for 75 guests. The consensus seems to be that it’s reasonable for the baker to ask for compensation, particularly since this is a significant undertaking compared to casual cakes for family and friends. Many commenters also highlighted the importance of setting boundaries and valuing one’s skills and time.

In conclusion, while family and friends often expect favors without payment, this story underscores the need to balance passion with practicality. Baking can be a fulfilling hobby, but when it turns into professional-level work, fair compensation is justified. The original poster handled the situation maturely by communicating her terms upfront, which is a good lesson for others who may find themselves in similar scenarios.

Emily Davis

Emily writes heartfelt stories about family, parenting, and personal growth.

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