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AITA for refusing to do my friend’s wedding cake at a huge discount?

by Jane Smith
October 23, 2025
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In the midst of lifelong friendship and shared dreams, Ashley’s wedding plans were suddenly clouded by an unexpected heartbreak—the loss of her wedding cake. For two friends bound by years of memories and wedding excitement, this moment was a quiet storm threatening to dim the joy of a day meant to shine forever.

Yet, in the shadow of disappointment, a hidden talent emerged as a beacon of hope. The bride’s request to a friend transformed from hesitation to heartfelt courage, as the promise of a four-tiered masterpiece became a symbol of love, resilience, and the unbreakable bond between two souls.

AITA for refusing to do my friend’s wedding cake at a huge discount?

I (32f) have a friend "Ashley" (33f) who is getting...

We've been talking about wedding stuff for the past year...

The person responsible for the cake for her wedding is...

I was a teacher, and this is my first year...

I don't have a cake business as I don't want...

I at first declined as I never do cakes for...

Ashley wants a four tiered cake with four different flavors...

The decorations will require me to order specialty molds and...

Ashley was upset and said I was overcharging but I...

I told her I would do it for the other...

When I asked why, Ashley said since she's my friend,...

to think of it as my 'wedding gift' to her....

But she mentioned that I did my sister's cake for...

I told her family and friends are not the same....

She told me I needed a friend discount, so I...

" Basically, Ashley didn't like that response and has told...

though some say to half it instead of dropping it...

so their main argument is I don't need the money...

which they only know because they saw me using my...

My husband thinks I should drop out of the wedding...

Edit: I've only paid for my dress for her wedding....

But the only money I've spent so far for her...

Paying for just ingredients and molds would be maybe $150-$200...

What most [home] bakers base their price on is the...

Then cakes are priced with that combined with the serving...

Because 100 doesn't divide by 12 but is still a...

50 per decorated wedding cupcake to the price of a...

I upped it to $825 so the extra $5 could...

What do you think of this story?





THIS STORY SHOOK THE INTERNET – AND REDDITORS DIDN’T HOLD BACK.

savage1878 NTA: I respect you for offering it at the...

budget, even though it would cost you more (which would...

The fact she wants you to do it for dirt...

Alyssa_Hargreaves just seems like it went from hey can you...

Also reminder on something super important. What if the cake...

Like what if the image doesn't match her "vision" do...

Or she'd try to hara*s you into a refund because...

Ffs 4 tiers all different flavors? That alone is a...

The CUPCAKES holy shit no.

Because you'd have to ice them AT the wedding unless...

avoid melting from the heat. But hand frosting 100 cupcakes...

H**l no You'd have to have a IRON CLAD contract...

Because she would f**k you over in a heartbeat.

You'd need the contract overlooked by a lawyer to ensure...

libel etc ) and have it notarized so it's a...

demanding you to give a nearly 90 percent discount onto...

you didn't include labor and your time.

She's lucky you are only costing things at $100 more...

that has the ovens to handle it all, and the...

Don't do it. Really don't. And honestly? Step outta the...

You can sell the dress and shoes for at least...

AmsterdamJimmy420 She's not worth the drama. And her buddies need...

If they all want you to drop the price they...

A wedding cake and 100 cupcakes for a wedding isn't...

Inevitable-Okra-3229 NTA Cake decorator here.

My family only ever pays ingredients and very few friends...

Now all family and friends who order from me know...

mats or anything that isn't something that I've acquired in...

The cake decorator would most likely have everything for her...

A lot of decorators get rid of a lot of...

Most of my cakes bake for 1.5 hours plus mixing,...

I'm going to go ahead and say she hasn't looked...

Edit to add my family (nieces and nephews) get cheap...

They supported me through my learning and will often send...

When I go to cake shops they wonder around and...

not_a_bad_egg of my moulds: NTA - She has the money...

money towards the cake initially, so her excuse about being...

I think the idea of reducing it to the other...

A $675 discount as a wedding gift is h**la excessive....

Oneofakindnocategory NTA at all.: NTA. If she wants to only...

Your husband is right. Or how about this all these...

BeepBopARebop Real friends pay full price because they want to...

SingleAlfredoFemale Edit: NTA: "Ashley, you are asking me for a...

you enlisted friends to guilt me into giving you a...

" From your other comment, you seem to think she's...

And if she persists, you should probably listen to your...

squirlysquirel NTA your husband seems to have the right view...

The amount if time and energy that cake will take...

take it or leave but which ever she decides, it...

As for her flying monkeys...tell them they are more than...

DelurkingtoComment give them shift times.: NTA I'm on team husband.

Reading through the Reddit comments, it’s clear that many empathize with the dilemma the bride’s friend faces—balancing her passion and skills with the pressure of delivering a significant wedding cake on short notice. Commenters appreciate her honesty in initially declining but also commend her willingness to help in a pinch. There’s a shared understanding that while her expertise is undeniable, the stress of such a big commitment without a formal cake business can be overwhelming.

In my opinion, this situation highlights the importance of clear communication and setting boundaries, especially when personal relationships and special occasions intertwine. It’s admirable that she’s stepping up to support her friend, but it’s equally crucial she manages expectations to avoid burnout. Ultimately, a heartfelt, home-made cake crafted by a talented friend can add a unique and meaningful touch to the wedding day, even if it’s not a flawless bakery masterpiece.

Jane Smith

Jane loves exploring new cultures and writing about travel and lifestyle.

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