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AITA(23F) for telling my siblings that we have to practice saving food for everyone else.

by Charlie Brown
October 23, 2025
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In the wake of a heartbreaking loss, a young woman and her fiancé find themselves thrust into the role of guardians for three younger siblings, their lives forever changed in an instant. The weight of responsibility presses heavily on her shoulders, mingled with the bittersweet memories of a mother whose love was both a shelter and a struggle. Her choice to leave for college, once a source of guilt, now stands as a beacon of hope—a promise to build a life where her siblings can finally find stability and care.

Yet, the reality of this new chapter is a relentless challenge. The once simple life of two adults and two dogs has transformed into a complex tapestry of needs and sacrifices. Financial strain and emotional turmoil intertwine, but through it all, her resolve remains unshaken. She fights not just to survive, but to create a home filled with love and security, proving that even in the darkest moments, family is the light that guides us forward.

AITA(23F) for telling my siblings that we have to practice saving food for everyone else.

My mom pa*sed away 2 months ago, and my fiancé...

As much as I loved my mom, I know how...

so when I left for college I did feel guilty...

so that I could make enough money to get a...

They understood why I had chosen to go away to...

Although i am in the position where my siblings can...

Especially financially wise, I mean I went from just caring...

It was such a shocking flip to my world and...

And I fully understand that we grew up in a...

so we truly never knew when we'd eat a full...

it takes some saving and budgeting but my fiancé and...

I have had small conversations about my siblings needing to...

enough for others to be full as well. I understand...

Things got bad when my fiancé and I went grocery...

We woke up Friday morning and within less than 24...

I called everyone down and explained to them that I...

however they needed to be 100 percent considerate of everyone...

I told them that we were going to start learning...

The reason I'm asking if I'm TA because I went...

and another group member told me that I was being...

Im absolutely not trying to control their eating habits, I'm...

What do you think of this story?





AFTER THIS STORY DROPPED, REDDIT WENT INTO MELTDOWN MODE – CHECK OUT WHAT PEOPLE SAID.

morgaine125 NAH. Food insecurity doesn't disappear because food is more...

if anything it can ratchet up the impulse to as...

So what your siblings are doing now is absolutely normal...

LunaticBZ It's going to take time before they start to...

Going to be a difficult road going forward. Not really...

Mich**leud123 just be mindful not to do anything to make...

you might be able to file for survivor benefits through...

babymargaret NTA - but to add, are the kids and/or...

If the food thing continues to be an issue,

Mister-Senior the therapist(s) may be able to get this point...

Fennicular were split between 3 kids, eating that whole pack...

not even a little bit! You're a good sibling,

and I promise you that parenting kids is a constant...

So you're off to a GREAT start, and your siblings...

As for food, nobody can bring up 3 kids without...

If you bought 50 packets of cookies, that should last...

But kids are always hungry, so think about how you...

Bread, basic fruit and veg, etc. My kids are allowed...

apples and carrots as they please, but I will only...

You will find a balance that works for your family,...

unhingedfilmgirl You're doing the best you can, and that's all...

When kids have inconsistent patterns of eating, as in one...

their hormones get very f**ked up.

It's likely many of your siblings aren't able to understand...

don't have regulated hormones to tell them when they're full,

or their insulin and glucose are all over the place...

It's really important to ensure that the snacks you provide...

What you've said is totally understandable, but having a conversation...

So diet is the next best way to help this....

Same with complex carbs like whole wheats, barley, yams, potatoes,...

Grannywine Simple changes like this, and high protein snacks literally...

and you aren't going to give them an ED by...

and it isn't easy, but it is definitely worth it....

One child literally tried guarding everything in the home that...

Good luck, and keep working with your brothers they will...

Ok_Nobody4967 If you live in the US, your siblings could...

That may help with the xtra expenses. Because they have...

Are they receiving any kind of counseling? They could get...

Others have suggested foodbanks which could help with the food...

You and your fiancé are doing a fine job taking...

PeriwinkleWonder NTA -and maybe you can reach out to the...

buy? Teenagers are very expensive to feed; use the resources...

I donate regularly to my local food bank because I...

Families like yours are exactly why I donate.

After reading through the Reddit comments, it’s clear that many sympathize deeply with the original poster’s situation. People appreciate the strength and selflessness it takes to step up and become a guardian to younger siblings, especially during such a difficult time. Commenters often highlight the importance of seeking community support and resources to help manage the financial and emotional challenges that come with sudden guardianship. Many also commend the thoughtful planning that led to going to college with the goal of providing a better future for the family.

In my opinion, this story is a powerful reminder of how resilience and love can shine through hardship. While the journey is undoubtedly tough, the commitment to family and the willingness to face these challenges head-on is inspiring. It’s important for anyone in a similar situation to remember they’re not alone and that reaching out for help can make a significant difference. Ultimately, this story showcases the strength found in family bonds and the hope that comes from striving to build a stable, nurturing environment for those you love.

Charlie Brown

Charlie is a creative mind who enjoys writing about art, music, and culture.

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