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AITAH for telling my dad to cherish his other son because he’s the only one he has left

by Alex Johnson
October 23, 2025
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He carried the weight of abandonment on his young shoulders, a silent witness to the favoritism that carved a chasm between him and the father who was supposed to be his hero. Every missed game, every forgotten milestone was a quiet punch to his heart, teaching him early that love from his dad was conditional and scarce. At just nine years old, he learned that being the “stronger” older brother meant swallowing the pain and pretending it didn’t matter.

Behind the scenes of a fractured family, a boy stood alone, grappling with the sting of invisibility while his younger half-brother basked in the spotlight of their father’s attention. The hurt wasn’t just in the grand gestures missed—it was in the small moments, the unmet promises, and the cold indifference that echoed louder than any words. His story is a raw testament to the resilience forged in the shadows of neglect.

AITAH for telling my dad to cherish his other son because he’s the only one he has left

Made this account a few days ago, debated on actually...

My parents divorced when I was like just shy of...

Entire life his other son has taken more importance, told...

I was 9 years old standing looking out the window...

freaking out. It was literally just a check up. Yeah...

Not even just because of my brother. He didn't come...

I spent months learning guitar and a song to play...

My parents don't have a good relationship but my mom...

At one point I asked my mom if he really...

That happened just before my 17th birthday and since then...

If he reached out to me I'd say hi but...

Not saying he was never in my life but he...

Birthdays, short visits on Christmas, had surgery when I was...

Well, last week he told me he regretted being so...

We would leave immediately following my graduation and we would...

(INFO: not accepted to any college but I've spoken to...

I told him don't bother he should spend the summer...

I always said yes even when I didn't want to...

As far as im concerned tho i don't have a...

Lol ngl I laughed and asked since when. We kinda...

I told him I was planning on dropping contact when...

I stopped wanting him to. He's been trying to reach...

Yesterday ago I messaged him: "HI dad, please stop trying...

I don't know if you never gave a f**k about...

and really accepted it recently. I'm not mad I just...

I hope your relationship with your son stays just as...

" Dad told my mom, my mom's mad at me...

Not wrong, I do feel kinda bad because I could...

I wanted a dad to be proud of my achievements...

Mom's still trying to guilt trip me and im starting...

It's another year of faking smiles with him and I...

What do you think of this story?





AFTER THIS STORY DROPPED, REDDIT WENT INTO MELTDOWN MODE – CHECK OUT WHAT PEOPLE SAID.

lux_roth_chop You're not any kind of a*shole.

In fact you're giving your dad exactly what he wanted...

who stands on his own too feet and doesn't expect...

It's not up to him to decide you'll be a...

unicornwantsweed NTA If you had agreed to the trip the...

two could get to know each other better. I'm betting...

I would also ask your Mom why she's defending this...

Vegoia2 is the current marriage he's in breaking down?

Ok_Lead_7443 NTA, not even close. I would probably do the...

He doesn't get to decide to have a relationship with...

Maybe someday, you'll choose to forgive, maybe not. But it's...

JellicoAlpha_3_1 NTAH Odds are his friends or coworkers are talking...

the moving,

the road trips etc etc Which is why he planned...

him being able to post photos on social media and...

entered the "Everything my parents do embarra*ses me phase" and...

maybe he has finally seen the light of day and...

I think you need to write him a letter Detail...

Standing by the window when you were 9 wondering why...

more important than you, all the other times he bailed...

Did his other son stop wanting to spend time with...

Because you don't want to be his consolation prize Tell...

Tell him you are open to going to see a...

and that maybe having a 3rd party there will help...

cla*s="comment_author">Mezoberanzam: Why would you need to be in contact ?

You don't need to have a relationship with someone who...

You should maybe explain this to her,

saying that she's not responsable for your father/son relation failure...

And no, the trip is a very bad idea. You...

AwardImmediate720 There's a reason the phrase "too little, too late"...

He missed his chance and you've moved on to the...

Ok_Structure4685 NTA, if he were really interested and it wasn't...

he would apologize and let you know that the door...

and that he will always keep that option available for...

I'm fine' to feed his ego, regardless of whether it's...

Remind your mother that you are capable of cutting ties...

but you are capable of doing whatever it takes to...

Bitter_Animator2514 You don't owe him your time now that he's...

These are the consequences of his actions You might want...

BestConfidence1560 get to walk in: Your mom shouldn't be guilting...

Your feelings are completely understandable. I had the same kind...

it hurts when it happens initially, but overtime you become...

I don't hate my father, I'm indifferent to him.

It sounds like you feel the same and don't ever...

It's your father, it's your life, you're the one he...

I wish you the best of luck in the future.

After reading through the Reddit comments, it’s clear that many empathize deeply with the original poster’s feelings of neglect and favoritism. Numerous commenters shared similar experiences of feeling overshadowed by siblings or overlooked by parents, which only adds to the pain of growing up in such a fractured family dynamic. There were also supportive voices encouraging the poster to focus on their own accomplishments and worth, reminding them that parental validation, while important, doesn’t define their value.

In my opinion, this story highlights a crucial issue that many face but few openly discuss: the emotional toll of unequal parental attention. It’s heart-wrenching to see a young person struggle with feelings of rejection and invisibility, especially from those who should be their biggest supporters. While the father’s actions are disappointing, the poster’s resilience and willingness to share their experience publicly is a brave step towards healing and self-empowerment. Ultimately, it serves as a reminder to all parents to strive for fairness and to recognize the unique needs of each child.

Alex Johnson

Alex is an expert in finance and often shares tips on managing personal money.

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