After years of carrying the weight of motherhood and the physical and emotional toll it exacted, she finally found the courage to ask her husband to share the responsibility through a vasectomy. Their decade-long marriage, filled with the joys and challenges of raising three young children, now hangs in a fragile balance, strained by unspoken fears and silent resentments.
She had borne every hardship—from complicated births to relentless postpartum struggles—while trying every available form of birth control, only to face side effects that left her body and spirit broken. Now, as the tension thickens between them, the question lingers: can their love survive the demand for equality in a battle long fought alone?
AITAH for asking my husband to get a VASECTOMY after I’ve done EVERYTHING when it comes to pregnancy and birth control?
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My buddy’s vasectomy took 12 minutes, and he was only really sore for a day and fully healed in a week. He loves that he can rawdog worry free and recommends them to all of us now!
I don’t normally recommend a sex strike, but you could do an indirect one:
-You’re done taking birth control -You won’t risk unprotected sex
The ball is in his court from there. Condoms or the ship, his call. 🤷♂️
