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AITA for telling my daughters that I made a mistake by choosing to stay in their lives?

by Ankit
September 12, 2025
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Fourteen years after a painful divorce marked by betrayal and shattered trust, a father battles the silent war waged not just between him and his ex-wife, but within the hearts of their two daughters. What began as a messy separation soon twisted into a haunting struggle against rejection, bitterness, and the corrosive poison of deceit, leaving the father isolated in a fractured family.

Despite his desperate efforts to nurture love and connection, the children’s anger and sorrow became walls too high to climb. Haunted by lies and lost in their own turmoil, they turned away, leaving a father to grapple with the crushing weight of heartbreak and the painful question of whether his insistence on holding on was a courageous hope or a tragic mistake.

AITA for telling my daughters that I made a mistake by choosing to stay in their lives?

My ex-wife and I got divorced 14 years ago. It...

She moved in with her affair partner and ended up...

I tried to have a good co-parenting thing going but...

They would be angry and sullen each time they would...

And that's when they were not totally withdrawn. They were...

It didn't improve with time. In their teens they cost...

They didn't even want to visit me anymore, but I...

The only time they'd visit was to ask for money....

I'm just done at this point. At the start of...

Something broke inside me and I told them I wished...

Maybe they would have too. They looked shocked, and then...

It fills me with incredible guilt, but I almost feel...

What do you think of this story?





AFTER THIS STORY DROPPED, REDDIT WENT INTO MELTDOWN MODE – CHECK OUT WHAT PEOPLE SAID.

UndisclosedBird NTA. Tragic. But not the a*shole.

SaltContribution2172 I wish you can find something that gives you...

I used to think fathers that walked away were deadbeat....

Babsgarcia NTA - Sorry you've gone through this.

cold hard truths throughout, responsibilities for any of your own...

After it's done, *then* you can decide if you want...

or even just feel better about 'giving up' and walking...

Courin I'll probably get roasted for this but YTA.

They had their lives turned upside down, and according to...

Those lies destroyed your relationship with your girls, and that...

You have every right to be upset at the situation....

kw0510 As a mum to a daughter who's done with...

I have never ever said a bad word about her...

When going to visit she wasn't his focus, he wouldn't...

He would very rarely spend what little time he got...

FloweryHawthorne he wouldn't fi: I don't know when this website...

they're not a*sholes... But telling your children that you wish...

judgynewyorker Well first off, this reads like Reddit MRA bait.

Your lack of responses to hundreds of comments supports this...

this tends to happen when one party (fathers) do not...

MissM***erpants so I'm guessing this wasn't some meanie s***st judge...

They only seem to expect you to bankroll them. For...

Go forth and try to find happiness.

miaoverhere The way you speak about your daughters suggests you...

You ended up proving their mother correct. YTA for blaming...

warmgreyverylight ESH I'm sorry to include you in that when...

the whole story, but . . you don't *seem* to...

Maybe you did and just didn't include it in the...

After reading through the Reddit comments, it’s clear that many people empathize deeply with the pain and frustration this father experienced. The complexities of divorce, especially when compounded by parental alienation, can leave long-lasting scars on both parents and children. Numerous commenters suggested that sometimes, despite best efforts, children may need time and space to heal on their own terms. The consensus often leaned toward patience, professional counseling, and maintaining a steady, loving presence, even in the face of rejection.

In my opinion, this story is a heartbreaking reminder of how critical honest communication and support systems are in co-parenting after divorce. While the father’s insistence on visitation may have been well-intentioned, it’s important to balance that with sensitivity to the children’s emotional state. Ultimately, rebuilding trust takes time and often requires outside help. This father’s dedication is commendable, and with ongoing effort and perhaps professional guidance, there remains hope for reconciliation and healthier relationships in the future.

Ankit

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