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AITA for being indifferent about whether my wife is, “pulling her weight”?

by Ankit
September 23, 2025
in Relationships
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In a quiet household where love and sacrifice intertwine, a man embraces his wife’s choice to abandon the working world, honoring her devotion to their daughter without question or judgment. Their home, once a sanctuary, becomes a battleground of silent tensions as family dynamics shift beneath the surface, revealing unspoken conflicts and the fragile balance of control and care.

Amidst the turmoil, an innocent voice breaks the silence, exposing the cracks in their fragile peace. The man, caught between loyalty and fairness, faces the painful reality of setting boundaries, navigating accusations and misunderstandings, all while striving to protect the fragile harmony of the family he cherishes.

AITA for being indifferent about whether my wife is, “pulling her weight”?

My wife doesn't have a job. And I don't care....

I literally never even think about the fact that she...

Him and my wife apparently have been b**ting heads while...

But I didn't pretend I was surprised when my wife...

And that I'd pay for a hotel if he couldn't...

Just cause my wife has complete control over our finances....

I don't need much and am admittedly not the sharpest...

She currently has to give me the cash since my...

He mentioned that i do "most" of the cleaning (untrue)....

He decided he'd leave tonight instead of waiting. I called...

On the way there he started telling me about how...

and sometimes says she stays in bed all day, "because...

If I wanted to quit. I would. If she wants...

I've never cooked at all since we've been together. She...

That's why it's in quotation marks in the t*tle* *she...

* *she only has to give me money since my...

And I'm not technically asking her for money. She just...

What do you think of this story?





HERE’S HOW REDDIT BLEW UP AFTER HEARING THIS – PEOPLE COULDN’T BELIEVE IT.

verminousbow NTA. You and your wife are both happy with...

If she is laying around in bed all day and...

Jannnnnna Well, you're certainly not the a*shole, and I think...

But if this were relationship advice,

then I think people would tell you that it is...

or does so little work that others notice/comment, or that...

BazTheBaptist NTA it's your relationship, if your are both happy...

Kind of concerned about the kid though?

But since you don't seem concerned I'll a*sume you guys...

cla*s="comment_author">handydandy2020: interesting info: why was he kicked out from his...

OnceUponAMidnte tty att*tude or the fact he leeched off his...

musical_spork I am curious how you are offering to pay...

: NTA. If you're happy with how y'all go about...

av227 Sounds like bro is just salty: Well...I understand why...

I understand why he would worry that you are being...

So long as you're truly good with your family arrangement,...

tracyerickson he's also NTA for being concerned (though: NTA, and...

you seem to be a good guy who's happy with...

Bblibrarian1 NTA- While I can understand his concern,

it's none of your brothers business how you and your...

As long as you are happy, and it's not a...

While not everybody chooses to have one person primarily controlling...

4alark NTA. If it works for you both, why not?

And if you have a child, and she's handling the...

" Also, it's awfully rich when someone who has no...

After reading through the Reddit comments, it’s clear that many people sympathize with the original poster’s stance on his wife staying home to care for their daughter. Commenters generally support the idea that every family has its own dynamics and arrangements, and as long as everyone involved is happy and functioning, external judgments don’t matter. The tension between the brother’s girlfriend and the wife, however, was seen as a predictable outcome of having an uninvited guest overstaying their welcome, especially when financial and personal boundaries weren’t clearly respected.

In my opinion, the OP handled the situation with a sensible balance of fairness and firmness. Offering to pay for a hotel if the brother couldn’t find alternative housing was a respectful way to support him without compromising the household’s peace. It’s a reminder that even in close-knit families, setting boundaries is essential for maintaining harmony. Ultimately, the story highlights the importance of communication and respect within family relationships, no matter the circumstances.

Ankit

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