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AITA for withholding from my children that my husband had a wife and child before he met me? They’ve just found out and are acting like I’ve betrayed them.

by Ankit
September 26, 2025
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Haunted by the ghosts of their pasts, two souls found each other in the depths of despair, both drowning in the pain of loss and addiction. Their wounds, though raw and unhealed, became the fragile foundation upon which they began to rebuild a life together, seeking solace in shared understanding and the hope of healing.

Amidst the shadows of tragedy and the scars left by fate, a quiet love blossomed—one that honored the memories of those lost and embraced the imperfect present. Yet, the trials of parenting teenagers tested their fragile peace, stirring emotions and challenges that threatened to unravel the delicate thread holding their family’s fragile hope together.

AITA for withholding from my children that my husband had a wife and child before he met me? They’ve just found out and are acting like I’ve betrayed them.

My children are 17 and 14 respectively, and I'm hoping...

My husband, before he met me, had a wife and...

No one was at fault, it was a horrific disaster,...

I had my own trauma from the past, and similarly...

20 years ago almost to the day now, and we...

I like to joke that I'm keeping her seat warm...

and tbh- I am so damaged that I just feel...

We'd never told them about my husbands wife or baby,...

He has never healed from his grief, and therapy etc...

She didn't consult us before telling them, and certainly didn't...

they've been prodding their dad asking why we'd never told...

and instead of approaching the topic with respect they're acting...

My 14 y/o went on to say to me in...

I broke and yelled at him, and told him it...

I asked where his anger was coming from, and he...

He told me that it made 'so much sense' why...

the two are pretty heartbroken, and I feel like we...

I am hurting, my husband is grieving all over again,...

but this behavior seems so overreactive for the news.

What do you think of this story?





THIS STORY SHOOK THE INTERNET – AND REDDITORS DIDN’T HOLD BACK.

lvl99slayer NTA. But your mother in law is for thinking...

Also your children have a right to be upset but...

auzziesoceroo There's so much to unpack here. First up. NO....

How people choose to deal with their grief is no...

You and your husband made a choice to not bring...

Your MIL is a total f**king a**ehole.

LiteUpThaSkye On what planet does she get to decide when...

why my husband is panicky around roads, etc. NTA,

but it sounds like they are mad because the death...

It sounds like you all need to sit down as...

Your kids are practically adults at this point I almost...

Krazyrobus Nta But holy shit, your mother in law and...

d0n7w0rry4b0u717 ESH First of there's your mother in law,

who sucks for telling your children without consulting you. Second,

your kids suck for making dead baby jokes and saying...

Third, you and your husband suck for keeping it from...

Though I'd say suck is a bit harsh but mistakes...

Cipher_3 NTA your kids are old enough that they should...

up in casual conversation. What did they want? "Oh yeah...

It's none of their business. It doesn't affect them whatsoever....

shesellsdeathknells ESH. Listen OP,

I get that your husband is in a bad spot...

Your sons are the older side of young but still...

They just learned something that a lot of people would...

sorrylilsis ESH. But to be perfectly honest: what did you...

Squeletons on the closet always come out. Did you think...

That lying to them for all their life would have...

sujihime I'm writing this as someone whose one half of...

my dad died before I was born. No one talked...

She was an AMAZING mother and took care of us...

Clarice_Ferguson to heal. ​ However.: NTA But I don't think...

I think your family had issues long before it and...

I know you're ok with saying "you're just a seat...

" but kids pick up on the underlying feelings -...

Look at it from their point of view - they've...

Reading through the Reddit comments, it’s clear that many sympathize deeply with the narrator’s pain and resilience. Users admire the strength it takes to overcome such profound loss and trauma, especially when compounded by the challenges of raising teenage children who are struggling with their own issues. The community seems to appreciate the narrator’s grace in respecting her husband’s past while cherishing the love they have built together. There’s a shared understanding that healing is a complex, ongoing process, and that empathy and patience are crucial both within families and personal recovery journeys.

In my view, this story highlights the intricate layers of human emotion and the power of love to mend even the deepest wounds. While teenage behavior can be difficult, it is often a reflection of the underlying turbulence in the family dynamic. The narrator’s ability to maintain compassion and humor despite her hardships is truly inspiring. It reminds us all that healing isn’t linear, and sometimes the greatest act of strength is simply continuing to hope and love amidst the chaos.

Ankit

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