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AITA for not letting my obese sister borrow my clothes?

by Michael Lee
October 16, 2025
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In the quiet tension between sisterly love and personal boundaries, a young woman finds herself caught in the delicate balance of generosity and self-respect. Her sister, once her equal in size, has grown into a different shape, stretching not just the fabric of their shared clothes but the limits of their relationship.

As the clothes tear and the weight of unspoken emotions builds, the younger sister’s innocent requests become a source of quiet frustration and heartache. Beneath the surface lies a story of change, acceptance, and the struggle to hold onto identity while embracing the evolving bond between siblings.

AITA for not letting my obese sister borrow my clothes?

Hear me out. I (20F) have a (17F) sister who...

However, recently, she's really put on quite a bit of...

I'm at a healthy weight for my height, but I...

Now, since I work, I can usually afford much nicer/trendier...

The problem it, that while some of my baggier clothes...

Just last week, she really wanted to wear a pear...

I know she didn't mean to, but I was a...

She also stretched out the collar on one of my...

I've always tried to be a good sister and have...

But she kept pressing asking if it was because of...

different pair to make up for it) or if she...

But she kept pressing and pressing so I finally said,...

I told her I didn't care what size she was...

She went to my parents and our other family members...

She thinks it's just because of the leggings, which my...

I tried to talk to her but she's pretty upset...

My parents are staying out of it but I guess...

etc. So Reddit, AITA for not letting my sister borrow...

So she didn't seem to think that she was ruining...

She thinks it's not a big deal and that the...

She blames the rip on them being "old," which they...

I think her behavior is both a combo of her...

So in her eyes, she's not ruining my clothes, which...

I'm heading into work so can't reply but I will...

I got a lot of great advice here, I think...

What do you think of this story?





REDDIT USERS WERE STUNNED – YOU WON’T BELIEVE SOME OF THESE REACTIONS.

Nebsy_Websy NTA. Shes destroying your cloths. Why would she insist...

Things that are more than 2 sizes small are not...

MultiFazed By staying out of it your parents are excusing...

but that's not what this is. The stark reality of...

and as a result she stretches your clothes when she...

You're not saying that her size is a *bad* thing...

gizzle2019 NTA- I'm a big guy,

and if my brother said that to me I'd be...

RindaC10 Facts are facts, can't say it any nicer sometimes.:...

I'm plus size (f**k it I'm fat lol) and I...

She must be in denial about her weight gain but...

Cost for clothes adds up and you can't keep replacing...

HappyGreenGiraffe NTA, she can buy her own clothes if she...

rose_gla*s NTA she's literally ruining your clothing.

She's a much larger size and she should have enough...

fits on her frame. Listen, I'm a plus size girl....

crystalzelda This is you being real about her being a...

I don't borrow clothes from my own sister for the...

Also, depending on the material, organic fabrics like cotton or...

upthecreekwthnocanoe so I would also be reluctant to share pricey...

NTA - this actually happened to me at uni when...

borrow anyone else's) and this girl turned around and told...

Totally untrue, traumatising for me bc people I didn't know...

eatthebunnytoo NTA ,

imagine if she put all that energy she's using to...

kitothestreets I hate how on this subreddit you will see...

Didn't we just read about a girl that's a fashion...

Having a hard time believing these both happened in the...

After reading through the Reddit comments, it’s clear that many people sympathize with both sisters. Commenters often pointed out the importance of communication and setting boundaries when it comes to borrowing clothes, especially given the size difference. Some suggested that the older sister could help her younger sibling find affordable clothes that fit better, or even go shopping together. Others emphasized sensitivity in how the issue is approached, to avoid hurting feelings while still protecting personal belongings.

In my opinion, this situation highlights the challenges families face when sharing items that are closely tied to personal identity and comfort. It’s understandable that the older sister feels frustrated about her ripped clothes, but it’s equally important to be empathetic towards her younger sibling’s needs. Finding a balance through honest, kind conversations and perhaps some compromise—like lending only certain clothes or helping find suitable alternatives—could strengthen their bond and prevent future conflicts.

Michael Lee

Michael is a tech enthusiast sharing insights on software development and gadgets.

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