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WIBTA for letting my son be crippled with credit card debt?

by Jane Smith
October 16, 2025
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In the quiet folds of a well-lived life, a boomer couple finds themselves at a crossroads of love and frustration. They have nurtured three children with care and wisdom, watching their eldest two blossom into responsible adults. Yet, their youngest son, filled with restless energy and defiance, challenges the very lessons they hold dear, straining the bonds that once seemed unbreakable.

The parents’ hearts ache as they strive to guide him through the turbulence of youth, balancing support with discipline. Despite their comfort and success, they grapple with the painful realization that love alone may not be enough to steer their son away from the path of recklessness. Their story is a tender, raw testament to the complexities of family, growth, and the unyielding hope for redemption.

WIBTA for letting my son be crippled with credit card debt?

My wife and I are boomers, but tech savvy ones,...

Our youngest son (21), though we love him, is trouble....

We are smart with our money and invest it well,...

Our youngest is finishing college, and we have financially supported...

we established a small spending allowance, with restrictions on how...

He frequently uses up his money on partying and "boys...

He feels that it is unfair that we should restrict...

At least three times we have tried to sit down...

When we suggested that he get a part-time job if...

A crisis point happened last november when he stole one...

When we confronted him about it, he claimed to have...

We saw through this, and decided to cut off the...

fees and rent as we had been doing, but that...

He barely spoke to us after that (christmas was tense),...

he went to the bank to remove our names from...

He did so, and in the past three months managed...

He said he had learned his lesson, and asked us...

But I think he needs to learn how to be...

My wife thinks that we should pay the bill, with...

She feels that this would teach him his lesson without...

So, WIBTA for not paying the bill, and leaving him...

I may post an update in the future as a...

What do you think of this story?





AFTER THIS STORY DROPPED, REDDIT WENT INTO MELTDOWN MODE – CHECK OUT WHAT PEOPLE SAID.

SlooperDoop He's an adult, and he is accountable for his...

And $9k is nothing compared to all the student loan...

OilSeeYouL8er NTA: Plenty of kids leave school with more than...

It's later and time to pay it off. If you're...

I would advise against taking on the full 9000 and...

But it might not be too amis to offer to...

cla*s="comment_author">stumpdawg: NTA JCF NTA. Nine grand in three months?!?! Thats...

We can only garner what the child is like based...

but if the truth is even a percentage of how...

International-Aside taking care of this.: >

He said he had learned his lesson, and asked us...

Clearly he has not learned his lesson or he'd be...

his debt that he wracked up on his own. You're...

shygirlshouts oooh, NTA. if you keep bailing him out, why...

give an inch, he'll take a mile etc etc. he...

but he'll be worse off forever if you keep solving...

Griffscavern NTA you've coddled him for far too long. He's...

If you keep bailing him out he's going to keep...

oamnoj From someone who is the age of your middle...

too, he has most certainly not learned his lesson. All...

He needs to learn how to be smart with his...

ElephantJuiceYoyo NTA A grown man made a deal with a...

He decided to borrow *$9000* in *three months*. That was...

He seems to feel incredibly ent*tled to your money and...

not only will he not pay you back (he still...

GlitteringHair7 ) But you'll be teaching him that: NTA. You...

You gave him every avenue to be able to budget...

His debt is his own. What he needs to do...

IF he can do that on his own,

Deerpacolyps that will show that he has learned his lesson...

My parents could have paid it. They didn't offer, I...

It seemed pretty obvious that I was old enough to...

My mom took my paychecks ( yes, I actually got...

After reading through the Reddit comments, it’s clear that many people sympathize with the parents’ position. Most agree that setting boundaries around money is a crucial part of teaching financial responsibility, especially when previous children have shown they can manage it well. Commenters also expressed frustration with the youngest son’s seeming lack of appreciation and self-discipline, emphasizing that financial support without limits can enable poor habits rather than help him grow.

In my opinion, the parents are doing the right thing by maintaining spending limits despite the youngest son’s complaints. It’s important to encourage independence and accountability, even if it causes tension in the short term. Hopefully, with continued guidance and clear expectations, the youngest will learn to manage money responsibly and appreciate the support they’ve been given.

Jane Smith

Jane loves exploring new cultures and writing about travel and lifestyle.

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