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AITAH giving our son child support money but not telling him where it came from?

by Charlie Brown
October 16, 2025
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Fourteen years of marriage forged a family from broken pieces, where love and resilience replaced absence and pain. Together, they raised a boy scarred by a father who never truly showed up, building a home filled with strength and hope, even as shadows of the past lingered quietly in the background.

Now, an unexpected payment stirs old wounds and new dilemmas, forcing them to confront the tangled debts of love, trust, and sacrifice. The choice is no longer just about money—it’s about respect, fairness, and the fragile bonds that hold their family together.

AITAH giving our son child support money but not telling him where it came from?

My wife and I have been married for 14 years....

We married within a year, moved out, and raised him...

he was in and out of jail and was physically...

We'd give some to our son and use the rest...

My wife wants to give our son half, but we...

His wife, knowing her for many years, will likely also...

We are considering giving him the money but not telling...

What do you think of this story?





REDDIT USERS WERE STUNNED – YOU WON’T BELIEVE SOME OF THESE REACTIONS.

nikki57 You and his mom covered the costs for his...

She is ent*tled to 100% of it.

How did you guys raise someone so ent*tled they'd want...

It's really nice to want to give him half, but...

LiliAtReddit He's not ent*tled to this money - at all:...

Whatever little my Mom got from my bio-dad, it went...

Alternative_Squash61 What a shame. He made it to 25, but...

StarsBear75063 >"I believe my wife is ent*tled to at least...

" You are absolutely 100% true. She IS ent*tled to...

Tiny-Relative8415 Your son has no ent*tlement to that money.

Child support means money going for support of the child....

Clothing, shelter, dental, medical, and any extra curricular activities that...

Your ex owes you 50,000 back pay from all of...

tootall777 Your son isn't legally ent*tled to any of it....

Child support is meant to reimburse the parent for the...

If you and your wife chose to give any portion...

You could possibly sock the funds, or part of the...

away in a separate account and use them later to...

verses blowing it on small junk now.

Your son also doesn't need to know that you have...

It is quite possible you will receive additional payments in...

ProfessorDistinct835 Your son sounds like kind of a d**k if...

Just keep the money. You were clearly out close to...

GalacticCmdr NTA: NTA. Child support payments are what they are...

They are not for the child, but to help cover...

In this case 100% of the child support payments belong...

Senior_Shelter9121 That money is to pay back his mother for...

bbbbears My dad was an abusive piece of shit.

Once while I was on visitation with him for the...

He encouraged me to ask her wtf that was about...

So I go home and ask my mom about it...

but I felt so dumb as she explained to me...

Like I legit would've spent the whole wad on Barbies....

After reading through the Reddit comments, it’s clear that many people empathize with the delicate position this couple is in. While some argue that the son deserves the full amount since it was originally his father’s money, most commenters agree that the wife’s contribution to raising him and managing the household should not be overlooked. The sentiment is that a fair compromise or at least an honest conversation about how the money should be split might prevent further resentment.

In my opinion, transparency and fairness are key here. Secretly withholding half of the money could damage trust and create long-term family tension. Instead, approaching the son with a calm and reasoned explanation about why the money should be shared may lead to a better outcome for everyone involved. After all, the money symbolizes more than just cash—it reflects years of sacrifice and support that helped shape the son’s life.

Charlie Brown

Charlie is a creative mind who enjoys writing about art, music, and culture.

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